>>13045447Duty is a male abstraction, women won't understand it. Consider framing the discussion around feelings.
>I understand how you feel, babe, I do. I just feel like you're looking at it the wrong way. When you're older, don't you want to be surrounded by a huge family that loves you and cares about you, and will look after you forever? Or do you want to be a cold, lonely #lifegoals Miss Havisham spinster, dying alone with nobody even noticing?Tell her you've thought about this alot, and if you're going to be married together, both of your hearts have to be in it. You have to work together as a team. The family does not need two money generators. It does need a loving and dedicated mother. Oh, that's a good one. Challenge her to be a loving and dedicated mother.
If all else fails, show her this pic, and it'll put the fear of God in her.