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I know you probably wont believe me OP, but trust me when I say you're not missing anything. The overwhelming opinion from people like us that finally lose their virginity is "oh... that was it?". Women are so much more of a headache than they're worth. Yes, there are some wonderful, amazing, kind and loving women out there that will make life a dream come true for their partners. They're maybe 2% of the female population. And for people like us, terminally online people with baggage, the women most likely to insert themselves into our lives are the crazies with BPD. They can smell men like us from a mile away and can't wait to burrow under your skin and ruin your life.
And it wont be worth it, it never is. I miss masturbating to porn, honestly. I genuinely experienced more consistent arousal, better erections, WAY better orgasms when I'm the one in control. Sex with women is just boring. They put no effort in, never want to do anything fun, and by god you know you have to focus entirely on HER pleasure, god forbid you enjoy yourself. And when it's over, you're going to lay in bed and think to yourself "jesus christ, I traded it all for this". And that's if you can even just enjoy a peaceful moment of post-sex relaxation before they start bitching about something else. You'll remember all the extra work you have to do, all the striving, the real life grinding, all the free time you lose, all the effort you have to sink into this fucking relationship, all in exchange for a subpar nut every once in a while that always comes with problems afterwards.
When I travel for work and I'm alone for a few days, those are the most peaceful days of my life. Sometimes I book a few extra days at the hotel and just lie to my wife telling her I have to stay, I'll happily spend another few hundred dollars for just a few more days of quiet. Try not to beat yourself up over being single, the grass is always greener.
