>>4283208I've always been living in my older brother's shadow, him and his wife are expecting their first child within the next two weeks. In high school I was always the younger and uglier sibling, and I've been feeling the pressure in my conversations with my parents to settle down with a wife and start a family. I don't think I need a standard wife and child family to be happy, honestly I think I would be unhappy in a situation like that.