>>20681257Also does anyone else blame their parents for given them a good (but wholly unrealistic to replicate) example? My parents were together for like nearly 15 years before they had me, they were truly best friends. I thought that was just how it worked. And then I went out in the world and found out actually no, most people are just self-involved narcissists who want to get theirs and leave, both men and women.
Shit sucks, I honestly don't know what to do. I can get laid, that's not the issue. But I don't even want it now. I want the fever dream fantasy that I thought was the norm, but I don't expect to find it or am even planning on looking for it. How to men even work up the effort to go after women now? It's like in the same category as getting an escort, all women are just escorts now.
