>>8877217>Hm, it depends on the choicese we are talking about. But choices generally make us grow, I guess. No way a young man becomes an adult without making important decisios. Some people become old at the age of 20, others remain kids up till the age of 40 because of the lack of decisions they had ever made themselve. If there's a lot of time so there's more space to put decision off. I think it leads people to the path of procrastination. Still though. Sure there are cases wher people take a really long time to grow up, Id say theres a huge difference in how mature you are when youre 18/19 compared to when you were 13/14.
Surely having to pick your vocation 4 years later wouldnt change how much you grow mentally that much for most poeople
>About more than half of them had got the same results as mine if not even worse.I wish i could say the same. My grades were one of the worst in my entire class; the average on test was ~75%, I usually got 50%
>No, it seems unnatural to me. I just believe that things are stricktly predetermined, it's a part of the worldview, which isn't the think my actions are based on. It makes me a bit sad as I think about this. If I always felt this way, I'd rather gave up on everything and kill myself at the end of a day.Yeah, sometimes I feel that way too. An heroing doesnt sound that bad, but I would never do it.
This might sound like a weird question to ask for this topic, but have you read spengler?