>>13045445I started even later than you. I have two wives that I met through fetlife, so the discipline sort of just came with the courtship. Anyways, how you train women is like how you train a dog. No attention for bad behavior, lots of positive attention when they do something good. I've gotten mine into knitting, which is a nice hobby that keeps them busy and sitting down.
Also, be strict but don't get irrationally angry. Stoicism is the key to dealing with hysterical episodes and the like. Never admit you're wrong. "Well, it's unfortunate that you feel that way," should be your go to. If they threaten to up and leave, encourage it as an idea under the guise of concern for their well-being. Always remember that women are not like men, their hysterics doesn't mean anything. Also, while you must never let them "educate" you about sex (that's a test) you must provide them with orgasms, or they go crazy.
Be patient, training women takes a couple of years, but it's well worth the effort.