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The responses to this are so revealing.
A hookup is someone who is a throwaway person to you, who is only good for one night of “fun” and who you don’t really care to see again.
Someone you want to marry is not someone you begin a relationship with by treating them like a throwaway.
But a lot of the men in the comments believe this indicates the woman isn’t sexually attracted to him and only wants him for his “resources” (as if women aren’t perfectly capable of having their own resources in this day and age).
The kind of men who buy into that sort of narrative are almost exclusively 1) men who have had little success in relationships, either in forming them or maintaining them, and 2) men who are insecure about their own sexual attractiveness to women.
They project their own sexuality onto women. For these men, being found sexuality attractive is the most important thing because it’s what they are most insecure about. It’s also the primary (and sometimes only) way in which they value women.
And because they are men who are unsuccessful in relationships, they are the type of men who are the least likely to understand what makes women tick. Men who are successful at long term relationships tend to understand women far better than men who struggle to attract and keep women.
tl;dr: incels mad
