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I am not talking a small weight gain. No. She gained 150 lbs during the lockdowns a year after we had just moved in. I cannot even preform in bed when she tries to get me to have sex. I am just not attracted to big girls.
If you're asking whether she's depressed, she is most definately not. She ate because she was bored and watching Netflix on account of being unemployed. All she wanted to do was that or have sex. I lost interest when she gained the first 30, unfortunately for her.
If she decides to lose weight, good for her. I am no longer interested in sex either way, due to the loose skin and stretch marks that will stay.
Maybe I should spend my time with someone who can satisfy me sexually. Now before you call me an asshole, we would still be friends. There's nothing wrong with being just friends.
It feels like I can be accused of fat shaming for my inability to perform to a woman I cannot get it up to. So, normally, I am reluctant to talk about these issues on reddit.
