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I'd have to agree with OP. Don't do it unless you're truly ready.
One of my managers divorced with his wife many years ago and to this day she still takes him to court for the most stupid shit. Sadly her parents are filthy rich and throw money at her left and right while he works day in and day out to support the kids. Not to mention courts are so one sided with women now that there's nothing he can do to combat her except pay more money.
>why doesn't he just let her have the kids then?
Because she's now a 400 lb. whale that has very shitty living conditions and doesn't care if they go to school or not. Court doesn't give a shit because "he smoked weed one time years ago".