>>21262351You're only suffering because you revolve your life around them.
I enjoy fishing, range training, exercising, bowling, the arcade, swimming, music and the beach. All fairly cheap hobbies and I enjoy them whether I'm with someone or not.
The reason you suffer is because you have an idealized fantasy in your head of what women SHOULD be like, but they aren't because of the modern welfare state, social media and simps. You probably have this fantasy in your head where you live in a 4 bedroom, 3 bathroom house on an acre of land in the suburbs, you have 3 children and a loving loyal housewife. Your neighbors are all really cool and nice. Their kids play with your kids. You make enough money to afford all the bills and still save for retirement, while going on 2 vacations a year.
That dream is dead. It's time to live below your means and make sacrifices. Most women are garbage and frankly, so are most men. 70% of American women are overweight/obese. 20% of American women are on SSRI medications (like Prozac and Zoloft). 80% of American women are Liberal/Feminist/Democrat. There is no escaping the hell we now live in.
At the end of the day, you choose your vices and you choose what causes you to suffeI. I choose to get away from everyone else and live in the countryside. If women are your priority, move to a city and start approaching them. That's the only way you have a chance.
Avoid dating apps at all costs. I'm 6'3", 190 pounds with 6-pack abs and I still wasn't good enough for 99% of the women on those apps. Their minds have been destroyed by social media.