>>16540008I think one of the most fundamental aspects of being female is the refusal of responsibility. Choosing what is fun, risky, and temporary over what is serious, fulfilling, and stable. They behave badly because behaving goodly requires effort. This is also why they love bad boys - partly because of power, but perhaps more importantly because they relate to the asshole refusing to uphold society's obligations. Most men do not respect these sort of men because we crave seeing struggle and higher goals. Women just want to have fun.