>>15432202for a man, this shouldn't start until you have built your foundation. it was much easier for the boomers, who could get a good job by literally a firm handshake. I think this gave any person then (chad or faggot) a chance a long marriage.
that bubble has burst. Its much harder now. you need to be much more clever and harder working.
until you have your shit together, you are likely doomed to fail at marriage. so you might as well enjoy the journey until you get there. You can have some fun with girls but don't take them serious until you are actually serious.
dont expect a woman to love you if you aren't a man.
and even then... its so easy for them to 'get bored' and justify their bullshit rationalized by influence of netflix and the like. and then its straight to the dating sites on a secret discreet folder on their phone.
good luck fellas.