>>21320835>the other tells me that in a few years they'll divorce or the "magic" will go awayThis part is right.
Marriage is a scam that benefits woman and the world must abandon this mal practice and engage in something more intelligent.
Sure we can find now days especially with pills and everything a way to not simple let the women alone to take care of the babies.
If it's yours, rules should be still exist for you to support the woman that you got pregnant at least until certain age minimum.
>But what about the part where everyone is happy with it?It is cool at the begging. Like, the first 3 years can be fun. Maybe 5 at most.
At 8 it's the dying end limit.
Everything that goes beyond that is pure laziness and conformism that very, very often is mixed with some sort of side polygamy (aka as cheating).