>>11874437>tolerate somebody with no mannersas I said those are cultural and regional concepts, I'm not going to bother walking somebody to the bus stop when they come unannounced, uninvited and take their damn time leaving.... albeit the last time they came by bus they were invited, announced and I was just in so much pain to walk... I offered them to take the bike but they politely declined
>embarass yourselfyou'll see that at some point thats the only way to get some people off your scrotum; sometimes you have to make a scene so they feel uncomfortable even if it's only due to your embarassment
the only alternative to that would be to become violent... and that is something that should bd left for last resorts
some people are dicks, my dealer was a dick, an opportunistic dick, the kind that won't do what you ask them until you make a scene... they don't have to follow the rules because nobody is there to enforce them
it's pretty sketchy how he always claimed I was his best friend with all the shit hes been doing to me I'm pretty sure he was just an opportunistic parasyte that fed me drugs in exchange for tollerance of his shit behaviour
in a sense it's a form of codependancy; he keeps doing that again and again- with his ex he prolly did thd exact same shit he does to everybody (and from few interactiom between them I observed I can say that's atleast somewhat true), making them feel worth less while standing on a pedestal like the egocentrist he was, and in exchange he tolerated her mental illness without trying to help her sincerely, he'd just parrot whatever the psychiatrist would say while doing next to nothing with her drinking problem- simping for her months after they broke off and only recentoy cutting contact
