>>20318210>Yeah, while they're young.Most girls are cute when they're young and aren't so cute as they age, though some remain quite pretty.
Looks are fleeting, even for men, though more slowly.
What matters is if you get a good woman who supports and takes care of you, perhaps bears your children and is a loving mother to them, and who sticks by your side in life like a cheerleader boosting your morale to help your achieve your goals. As they say, behind every successful man is a good woman.
I am close to a woman a few years older than me. She is still thin and attractive, but my main attraction to her is all of the above -- except the childbearing potential at this point. But she is totally nurturing, supports all my goals like a cheerleader, is willing to take care of my elderly parents and me while I work and pursue a master's degree, and she is impeccably proper and courteous due to good upbringing.
Do I care that age is setting in? No, it's not her fault. We all age and no one can stop the flow of time except God in Heaven.
I have seen elderly couples who've both lost their looks yet who are utterly dependent on and loving toward each other, with the kind of love that comes from spending years and decades together and sharing their lives and their best and worst.
Look for that kind of woman and value her personal qualities as a nurturer, supporter, caretaker, and mother more than her looks. That, I think, will pay off more in the end than just going for looks. Life is a marathon, not a sprint, so plan for the long term, which includes aging.
And if she's cute, well, that's a great bonus!
