>>9512323>he doesnt want kids til 30listen, woman to woman, you should have left him a long time ago, and you should do it now. Wasting your time on a man who doesn't want children in the near future is stupid. You have a precious few years to have children that are healthy, once you get into your 30s there are problems. Either talk with him seriously about marriage and kids or leave him now. Spare him and yourself the wait. The longer you stay with him the more it will hurt him the later you leave.
>i wont find anyone elseyes you will, there are good decent men out there. Get some hobbies. Find people through common ground.
>nonvirginthats a problem many men will face, they have to pick their battles. Yes, women have been brainwashed into being whores for the pleasure of men, and told its empowering so they enjoy it.
>agnosticSeek the Lord first in everything you do. Ask Him for direction.
>student loansget a grip on school. If you can take alternate classes elsewhere for cheaper do it. If you can get a career you'd be happy with, without or with less schooling, do it. Get a job and work full time , go to night school.