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I don’t know what to do anymore. I’m at my wits end. I’m a stay at home mom and have been for years. I take care of the home, paying the bills on time, doctor’s appointments, children’s day to day needs, cooking, cleaning, laundry. My partner helps out more than I see most with household chores, getting children to extracurriculars, getting them to bed, helping at night when little can’t sleep. They are helpful.
The anger is another issue though. They always seem angry about something or are triggered by anything.
My oldest and them are at one another’s throats half the time. My oldest feels hated by them, and their constant remark is they expect more from the oldest and I’m just always taking my oldest side and can’t see any wrong. My oldest and them had a huge fight yesterday and my oldest told me if I stay with them another year I’ll probably have a dead child. That remark is weighing heavily on me.
I’m also tired of hearing them frustrated at night with our youngest and telling them to stfu or go to bed or they’ll spank them, and often times spanking them because they won’t sleep. I always say I doubt that helps to threaten and speak meanly, but they continue this action and have done so with youngest and middle since they were babies.
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