>>19336530I know a lot about women, I don't orbit them in the hopes of having sex when their latest relationship ends.
Again, if it isn't reciprocal the relationship isn't built to last. Perhaps it worked out for you 40+ year old anons in the past but today relationship dynamics have changed so significantly it's a waste of time if you're aiming for anything long lasting and not a quick fuck when a woman is vulnerable.
You live in a time period where you & they have access to the most potential mates possible, don't settle for someone who needs "effort" to have reciprocal feelings.