>>1012272When you achieve a state of comfort, you stagnate. All your needs are met. You have never risen to the challenge of needing to exceed your capabilities, and becoming more capable in response.
I do not say this to, in any way, belittle you, or your depth of character.
At several times in my life I have been homeless, broke, and hungry - utterly destitute.
It is through the desperation and transformative discomfort that I have become able to grow more capable of social success.
I have literally had to go door to door in a small town and say "I will do any useful work, for any wage, under any conditions.", amongst other things.
Once, homeless, I was given a 14' steel flatbed trailer frame on a '36-'39 Ford truck axle. I bought a welder, taught myself to weld with 6 bedframes bought at Goodwill, and cobbled together a tool trailer.
I live in it today.
Discomfort is not easy. That is why it is a motivation for personal growth, and necessary.
Cheers.
