>>14353270>seizedIt's cease, please learn my fucking language, retard.
Also, this sentiment didn't exist prior to like 1900. Men worked hard, but women also worked hard. Men just had jobs that provided income/food, and women had "jobs" that maintained the stability of the home.
>You work 12 hours/day in the mine>Your wife works 12 hours/day cooking, raising children, and cleaningIt literally just took forever to do anything, so women and men both had insanely long hours
Then companies started making washing machines, dishwashers, refrigerators, etc., and the amount of time women had to spend working plummeted because nothing took that long anymore.
The net result of this was a culture, throughout the 20's and 30's, that women should "relax and have fun" while men worked hard to support them with consumer goods. Then boomers, who were raised by parents with that attitude, and had a hard backlash that women should "stay in the home" which meant, in practical terms, doing absolutely nothing because everything was mechanized. So there was an even HARDER backlash that women should be "strong and independent", instead of trying to find things for them to do in the domestic household.
So to answer your question, it was seen as negative starting probably around the 80's or 90's, because the pampered housewife was conflated with the "timid" housewife.