>>21028749Speaking from lots of unfortunate personal experience, I would skip it. I’m sure your insecurity about being a virgin is so powerful that nothing I say will persuade you. But there’s a 95% chance that after your first sexual experience with a hooker, you’ll walk away unsatisfied and vaguely confused: thinking that jerking off actually feels a lot better. Sex is not the mind-bending, game-changing, perspective-altering experience you think it is. And the experiences you have with hookers will cheapen you, coursen you, make you jaded and ding your self-esteem if it’s your only means of having intimacy. Also, once you break the seal and establish the precedent that this is okay, you’ll always want to just go slap money on a table somewhere for instant gratification instead of risking the difficulty and potential rejection/frustration of dealing with a normal woman. It easily turns into an enormously expensive crutch.
So honestly… if you have it in you, just don’t do it. Virginity is actually an awesome and powerful thing (as much as that may strike you a strange and cringe statement). Read this book for a much deeper dive into the subject. Every time you fuck a prostitute, you’re basically throwing a handful of wet garbage into the swimming pool of your soul.