>>14430372I'll put this in terms that you should be able to understand. If I was in a room, and you were in the same room, and I wanted to cuddle, neither of us nor any observers would have any doubt that the big spoon was going to be me, or that you would have any say in any aspect of the cuddling even if only for the sake of appearances. Are you picking up what I'm putting down? Are you smelling what I'm stepping it? Are you tracking me, chikafag?