>>21414078>Can a man really truly be the head of the household, the husband in charge, when at the drop of a hat the woman can leverage the entire authority and power of the State against him.You are falling for the trap that is modern gender relations. In your mind the man has to conquer the woman, subject her and impose his will on her. This results in stressed out men that can never slip up once and lazy women freed from all blame and responsibilities.
Try this. A relationship is about finding a partner with whom to share the good and bad aspects of life with. To form a bond that lasts through all your troubles and where both work together in unison to create a strong family to bring up the next generation in.
Modern women all believe they can live like upper middle class women from the 19th century, where servants did all the work and she was free to travel with her husband and otherwise socialise. Well, except for the expectations of modesty and femininity that were still enforced back then.