>>1507295i learned Chinese, have healthy hobbies that i brag about like a chad on social media, constantly downplay my success, i always try take the lead in everything, when i met her i made sure to always be involved with something cool going on and asked if she wanted to join (in other words it was obvious that if she refused i would still be going out to do something fun) She literately chased me to be her bf. I didn't have a high paying job when we met, but now i do. My attitude is if she were to leave me i would survive and find someone else. She is attracted to that I think.
I remember she told me that my structured life and the way i study are hot. Also her family fucking loved me. The only time we ever fight is because of my massive porn collection and how organized it is