>>12636091As somebody who also fits that exact description, except I get any girl I want, just work on your personality. I used to be an incel dweeb until I started driving for uber in college. Forcing myself to interact with strangers every day helped break my shell and really upped my charisma. You can do the same. It's really not so bad. Not even saying you have to drive uber, just every day strike 5 conversations with complete strangers. Within a month, you'll be a social butterfly and will get any girl you want.