>>12840703well fair enough anon but don't forget about your third option which is self-improvement. I'm sure you've heard it plenty of times before and shrugged it off but you'll thank yourself when you see your own body and can take pride in it. quite simply a combination of a healthy protein rich diet + daily exercises for the muscle. Once you have an acceptable body you'll feel more confident to be forward with women but just generally more confident with people in general and more fulfilled