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You have to realize that the structures of control surrounding monogamy exist as deterrents to natural predilections.
Once the structure dies (as is happening), all of those "desires" come free.
But also know that the very idea that the structure SHOULD be that way that it is was imprinted on you by the same dying system, the system is dead you can abandon it and create your own rules. Don't be Don Quixote yelling at windmills, it won't do you any good.
Morality is dead, people are trash, everything is permitted, take what you want and don't feel bad about it.