>>22001407talking to women in person is far more effective. she doesn't have anyone else to compare you to in the immediate moment besides those she remembers, which aren't many because modern women have tik-tok brain; they are irritable in public because they're deprived of their dopamine source. when you approach one, just don't be weird, and make a remark about your immediate surroundings, an experience you're sharing together atm, or give her a compliment on something she chose (i.e. clothes/hair/etc.) instead of her eyes or something she can't control.