>>16402420>"wow me too" or "damn thats sad"well there's also the potential gratefulness as well, a comment about some guy's dead mom could make another guy be more grateful for his mom and that could make kinder or more empathetic to his mom, but i dont think it changes what you're describing, even if a comment like that could encourage somebody to be more empathetic it's still holding a big unsolicited sign saying "my mom died" to randoms
>a celebrity going up on camera and bawling about their dead cousin or something would be just as retarded as a youtube commentidk i think it happening irl makes it more understandable, with the youtube comment you at least get to think about what you want to communicate, you can type and retype and think as much as you want before you post, if you're in an interview and you get "triggered" into thinking about or get pushed into talking about a dead relative that's different and you have to react and answer right there, don't think it's really relevant to what you said though, sounds like you were saying if the celebrity's sole intent was to publicly bawl and they called a press conference or something to do so or something like that, which i could possibly see being ok if they needed to announce a family member's death but actually you wouldnt need to surround yourself with paparazzi to say something like that, you could just put out a tweet or something, so yea i think i agree with you
>>16402572>at the end of the day ur getting attached to ityea but there's different types of attachment, like you could be attached by fully embracing something or attached by getting smothered by it, i agree what you said about having those derailed times but it depends on how you get derailed, kinda like choosing to take a detour vs getting kidnapped. as for the satisfaction at the end, idk, i mean it's less like accomplishment and more like relief, which is kinda retarded because i opted into the lack of relief in the first place, chlim
