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Do not seek happiness or comfort. It sounds crazy but as a man you will not become happy in this world. Instead seek contentment by battling against yourself. Become a better version of what you were yesterday. Notice how depression only hits soldiers when they leave the battlefield and return to their comfort zone? This life is a constant battle. As long as you keep fighting, you do not loose.
Seeking victory, NOT seeking peace, is what ultimately gives your life meaning. And leading a meaningful life is what leads to contentment.