>>19576455Had something similar happen to me but we were around 23. I accepted meeting for lunch once but then decided to not follow up, basically end it with "wish you well, cya".
To this day, it's one of the few things in my life that I can say with confidence that it was the right move. To top it off, it felt extremely good to figuratively slam the door in her face.
At the time I thought that years down the line I might see that episode as something petty and maybe even regret it - as I mentioned, nowadays I can say without a doubt that it was right move and, boy, did it feel good.
They say payback isn't fulfilling or it's merely petty but that was none of that: "You get what you fucking deserve" - and I just happened to be the one delivering it this time around.
