>>7447168a) all societies have strong social pressures to stay chaste until marriage and marry early. Western society has nearly totally abolished this.
b) Dunbar's number suggests that we lived in tribal groups of around 120-150 individuals most of human existence. Women are attracted to the top 20% of men, but it's way easier to climb the social ladder in a small tribe with ~60-75 males with a high (especially male) mortality rate and structured mating and social-religious rituals.
Women have too much choice and are granted too much time searching for a mate they are happy settling with. I believe that if mass migration wouldn't already destroy Western society, uncontrolled female hypergamy and sexual freedom will do it instead.