>>14272679>>14272597>I'm a 40 year old bachelor who can't figure out a healthy or stable way to relate to the opposite sex>You're the one who's living life wrong though, you should be more like meYou're like a coping cat-lady with a dick, sabotaging the next generation in a stew of quiet resentment at the Opportunity they have (which you've very obviously squandered) and desire the convince others (and therefore yourself - you hope) that you did not in fact fuck up. Spinning your wheels like this will bring you little comfort, just stop.