>>10761046>>10761048Just saying it does not condemn you to apostasy. The fact that you recognize the mistake (of not standing up to your faith and accept that you belong to the body of Christ) shows that you are not an apostate.
Know that even Peter got caught in a moment of weakness and fear and denied Jesus 3 times, and you know what Jesus did afterwards once He was resurrected?
>Peter do you love me?He asked this ^ 3 times to him, in order to restore their relationship, their trust and love. Because the Love of God is eternal and as long as we repent and recognize our mistakes He is willing to take us back into his light.
>https://aleteia.org/2019/05/05/why-did-jesus-ask-peter-do-you-love-me-three-times/Now, understand that the unforgivable sin is not simply one act on itself, apostasy comes from a perpetual hardening of the heart and willfully sinning against God and man. So one does not have to say "I'm not a christian" to be an apostate, by one's act people can fall in apostasy.
Matthew 12:31
31 Wherefore I say unto you, All manner of sin and blasphemy shall be forgiven unto men: but the blasphemy against the Holy Ghost shall not be forgiven unto men.
This is the unforgivable sin: blasphemy against the Holy Spirit. What you did does constitutes a moment of weakness and not a blasphemy against the holy spirit because your heart still understand that you did wrong. If you did not recognize your mistake then you would have a problem, because that would mean that the holy spirit is not acting in you.
>https://www.christianity.com/jesus/life-of-jesus/teaching-and-messages/can-someone-commit-the-unpardonable-sin-today.html>>10761077If you did this and acted in retaliation against your father (whatever he did to tempt you) you have to apologize.
tldr: seek forgiveness and reconciliation with both your father and with God