>>20405718no, I wouldn't be okay with that to all of your questions.
In ancient china, especially during neo-confucianism of the song and ming dynasty, a woman that fell into a river or pond or other body of water and was rescued by a man was considered "unmarriable" to anyone but the man who saved her.
Obviously same for any women that was sexuall assaulted or even raped, the words used to describe that were literally "she was ruined" and in many cases the woman was either forced to marry her rapist, shave her head and send to a buddhist nunnery, or killed by her own family to prevent shame.
Males and females touching in any way above the age of 7 was seen as inapropriate. This even includes family members like their father or brothers.
even when reading a womans pulse (common method of physicians to determine health in china) the woman would have a silken cloth placed above her wrist so the doctor wouldn't have to touch her directly when reading the pulse.
The practice of eunuchs also came to be in this era, as women could usually only leave the household being accompanied by a male family member, and were otherwise confined to the inner courtyard, an area of the house that even invited (male) guests of the household were not allowed to enter.
>pic related, women were confined in the inner courtyard, most residences had a literal anti-cuck wall with its own gate and all in the middle of their residenceSince no male servants were allowed in the inner courtyard, but rich families still wanted male servants, they came to the solution to turn their male servants into eunuchs who were by definition "not male" anymore and hence allowed to enter the inner courtyard just like female servants.
Simmilar tenants are to be found in islamic culture.
An "outside male" even just seeing a womans hair is viewed as inapropriate and can seriously affect her marriage prospects.
Other behavior can lead to
>https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Honor_killingeven to this day.
