>>20813423in an official relationship it's unprovable, and she'll come around in most cases
also, argue & discuss only until she goes off the rails in a way that your male friends wouldn't. if a man would have gotten the point by now, just close the discussion, tell her to bend over, and spank her. at least that's gonna be my policy after the last trainwreck.
- it reduces time spent unproductively
- it reduces the raw amount of aversion you both feel for each other because the ratio of good hours / bad hours gets a buff
- it reinforces her being a woman who has to take it from her man, not a grrlboss who is trying to see where the line is with the other caveman (shit tests are of a bygone era)
- endorphin rush, sub-space etc turn a bad situation into you being her LORD and her being nice for days afterward
- if she never starts liking punishment, it still serves as a reinforcement, so win-win
ass bruises can be easily explained away by "we are in a relationship, spanks happen in the bedroom"
buy some bdsm gear even if you don't use it, just as further corroboration if she tries to blow up your life
another motivation:
while men report high rates of arousal to the female form (straight) or the male form (gay) [both genitalia and dimorphic traits]
more women report arousal at dominance/submission dynamics rather than naked form of either sex
so if you have to choose between being more attractive or being more disciplinarian, you should go the latter route. however, it's not like they don't like muscles & faces etc. interestingly, muscles & height would be useful tools for the act of dominating. really gets your noggin joggin.
