>>2113636I dated a handicapped girl and it fucked up my life forever.
>meet at 18>slowly fall in love, start dating at 20>after we started dating her problem gets worse, she can barely walk at all now>i promise to support her and help her get through college>fail at that, she drops out anyway>promise to stay by her side forever>move to silicon valley after graduation, where her parents live>cant chop it in the most competitive urban economy in the country>have to move in with her parents, fucking humiliating>promise to abandon my dreams and do whatever it takes to stay with her>still, shes slowly going insane from the chronic pain, helpless immobility, and loneliness>her problem only gets worse>we become codependent as my abandoned dreams and her nightmarish condition turn me into a shell of my former self and her into a screeching harpy>she now both relies on me and hates me for not being what i used to>tell her i need to take a year off to pursue my dreams of doing business in asia>continue the relationship over skype, of course its even worse than before now that its long distance>one day just give up>delete my skype, facebook, everything>get a vietnamese residence card and adopt the dark mantle of a WHITE ESL SEXPAT GUYDon't do it. That was a six-year relationship I really wish never happened to me.