>>14411979>I understand the appeal of a stable marriage but I can’t imagine fucking a single increasingly unattractive woman for the rest of my life and not wanting to shoot myself.Honestly, same. It sounds fucking terrible. Are they just pretending? Well, most men can get off with some pretty disgusting women with a bit of effort. Imagining another (almost universally younger) woman is typical, from the older married men I know.
Obviously you would never admit this to your wife and would never give her reason to believe it, because it can only harm, not help. A male analogy would be a girl telling a guy she's not attracted to him because he's too short. That's an unfixable condition, just like an aging woman - you can't change it, period. If it's just some random woman, who cares, but if it's your wife and the mother of your children, making her feel loved and wanted is absolutely vital.
Another factor is selecting a good woman from the get-go, or (even better) one young enough that she can be guided into becoming a good woman. A big part of that is encouraging and developing in her an interest in health, taking care of her body, taking care of her skin, how to dress nicely, etc. Taking care of her skin and body (which, obviously, you should and would be doing for yourself too) is paramount for the continued healthy sex life.
>Do active things together; hike, bike, lift, swim, join a recreational sports league, etc.>Protect both of your skin from UV damage from the sun (this is massive); sunscreen every time you'll be outside for more than a few minutes. Even better: sun protective clothing like wide brimmed hats, UPF long sleeve shirts, and UPF pants/yoga pants>Healthy diet with a wide variety of vegetables and fruits, a moderate amount of meat, and minimize processed foodsIf a woman is attracted to you and respects you, it will almost never be a problem to get her on board with these things. That means you have to do them too, don't be a fat faggot.
