>>14616637I'm happy to give you some advice. If you're interested, I'm 21 year old 178 cm ~70kg and im not nearly as strong as you are. I was a sad lonely virgin until I was 19 years old but after a year or two of self-reflection and rediscovering my passions, I felt like I was in a very good place. I bought a motorcycle and started taking more risks. in a year of lifting weights i got to a 100kg bench press and 63kg overhead press and i made a lot of improvements to my physique. I got a lot more self-confidence. I met a girl and we fell in love last year and everything is going well. we have similar life goals, sense of humor, conservative values and i met her online on an app to make friends. I asked her if she wanted to go to an art gallery (just as a friend, no expectations of love or romance) and we clicked right away.
I would advise you to stay away from the hookup apps like tinder. there are no dignified men or women on that kind of app. even if you don't find love, above all, try to conserve your dignity and pride. Finding a partner is an active process. You need to put some effort into it to find someone but don't let it be the biggest priority. just try to make friends and talk to people. talk to enough people that once you meet the one, it's just like puzzle pieces falling into place. don't act desperate. you have a lot going for you and a relationship is a two way exchange. she has something you want and you have something she wants. together you can create something beautiful and if she's not interested, it's her loss. some other girl will be the lucky one.
also keep in mind that girls are often getting approached by horny guys who want to fuck. Girls can sense when men want to use them. try to take things slowly, girls take longer to warm up emotionally and if you show that you have interest in her beyond just her body, she will love that and you will stand out from the other men who just want to fuck her
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