>>15569031>I need to revel in the fact that I have the freedom to truly figure out who I am before I inevitably end up falling in love one daythis is a dangerous way of thinking because life is one long, continuous process of finding out who you are, and who you are changes as you age. So thinking "I must know who I am before I can move on to the next step" is avoidance. It is moving on to those next steps that will reveal more of who you are.