>>15626294This. Sex is secondary to actually having someone to share myself with. To hold them in the morning before work wanting to never get out of bed, watching them happily eat the meal I’ve made specifically for them and sharing my life stories with them in exchange for theirs.
I’d rather never have sex than be with someone who doesn’t want to be bound at the heart with me. Unfortunately, most are looking for idle company and don’t actually care about you outside of what you provide them. They end up treating you like you’re just there so long as you provide. Like you’re a piece of furniture. An object with propose to them.
Sexual compatibility is cool but in time all things will fade and all that’s left is what those people were. Then the only thing that matters is how much you enjoy your time together and by then you both should know how to spend time together and be happy.
Now shut up Mycroft. Nobody loves you anyway.