>>12550020I've had women do terrible things to me, as I matured I began to realize that these experiences aren't something you share with anyone. By trying to fight it and really acknowledging it beyond "it happened, now it is over", you are just hurting yourself. It gives you this stupid mindset where you openly make your weaknesses known (e.g: this girl's post) and choose dumb rationalizing hatred over protecting yourself. Make your own rules and follow them on your own, don't repeat behaviors that didn't work out for you in the past.