OP needs to realize he’s been lied to.
Men are told that our early 20’s are supposed to be the best times of our lives. According to all media, it’s a nonstop party where pussy falls from the sky and lands on your dick.
Trust me bro, it’s not just you. All men have a much, much shittier time after college (or even just after high school). Most guys are still in that awkward youth state; not a kid but still not viewed as a man. We’re all told it’s embarrassing to live with your parents, but most do out of necessity. If you have a job it’s probably shitty. Your car is probably a piece of shit. You most likely don’t have much personal style. You play video games. You haven’t experienced very much in life.
Now take a step back and ask yourself why a girl in her early 20’s would date a “loser” (that is, an average guy in his early 20’s) when she could date someone just a few years older who has his shit together?
>>18475592Sexual myopia; being so focused on what you desire that you think it’s what the opposite sex desires. It’s why guys work out and send dick pics. We want women with nice bodies and we are visually stimulated. It’s also why girls brag about their education and independence; they find those traits desirable in a man.
