>>16911904Look, i'm gonna tell you how it happened to me. I had "crushes" and other superficial relationships. Never felt *that*. Things didn't work out, i got over it within a month, whatever, it's done. Then it hit me like a truck. Randomly. I wasn't searching for it, it found me. It's been over 7 months and still as strong as the first day. You can't force it, but you'll know it when you see it