>>8645431To a certain extent, some girls can be extremely different from what you're looking for, although I'd say it's not really a win, I can say that you probably have dodged a few bullets. I haven't got a gf in 8 months due to me finally realisin' that I can't continue dating chicks with a different personality because at the end of the day I'll break up and be sad.
Tinder... Eh... Some girls there are questionable, but yeah, try to work on that and maybe you'll manage to pull it through this hard mess. And don't loose your self esteem, there are bigger things to live for.