>>18134521FPBP. This is subconscious programming, trying to repeat a piece of content or idea to make it more true.
The message to men: men will get fucked up by a breakup, so they should just stay around in a bad one, or if they do break up then expect drinking and crying.
The message to women: you'll only feel back for a day and then you'll be amazing, so break up with your man over tiny BS details.
If you're in a relationship, you have to clear your environment of any negative and repetitive signals. You can easily inception your partner with positive signals and content.