>>12432620Yet another reason to k*ll myself before I get *ld.... I can see why so many of us do it
>your boyfriend must see you as one. Shouldn't that matter more than what I think?He does and it makes me really happy, but I don't know if he's only saying that because he knows that's what I want to hear.... Don't get me wrong, I'm not going to change myself fundamentally just because you'll never see me that way - I'm not sure I even can - but I respect your opinions on a lot of things. I think you have good judgment, and so if you won't see me that way, it would make me feel like I'm doing something wrong. I was thinking a lot about what you said the other day too, about being argumentative. I would like to change those things if it would mean people saw me differently. I hope maybe they will like me more in general too
>does believeing that you are something actually turn you into that something?It's not just about believing. Apparently even some cis gay men have brain patterns more similar to that of a woman's, yet they don't choose to believe they are anything but a man - it's just the way they were born. You're the one who says dreams can be a kind of reality, so clearly you believe in the power of the mind. Isn't this the same?
The people who I think are the fetishizers are the people with no shame. They will go out with a beard and a dress, and feel no dysphoria from it. Eschewing gender norms are one thing, but it perverts the idea in the minds of 'normal' people and makes it seem like all of us are weirdos
>I'm a generous manThat's debatable. Tea time? I feel like I can recognize the artist somehow. The face at least feels familiar. Your randomizer tho....
By the way have you started on that story
>>12432783Because I'm a fan and I like seeing what you're working on. I thought you were working on a comic too. What happened to that
