>>12626714>how can you resist someone with such a dominant frame?I don‘t like it as it‘s not as feminine as i’d wish to be but life has taught me to be able to slip into my own dominant frame if necessary to protect myself. This allows me to let down my guard and be caring and soft since i know that i can instantly gear up and fight back if it comes to it. Or bring myself to safety if i don‘t feel like going to battle. It‘s quiet convenient even though it leaves a slightly bitter aftertaste. I‘m also kind of torn about this making it not necessary for me to rely on someone else to protect me. On one hand, it‘s good to be able to do that for yourself if there‘s no one else that does it. But it can also be unhealthy to never need someone to catch you or ask to be protected. I‘m still trying to find my way back to an actual functional balance there.
