>>11683960this is kind of a common thing
after children some womens drive plummets. maybe an evolutionary thing
what is natural is for you to "cheat". this is how you would behave in our natural state. this was never uncommon in our past. you'd likely have some illegitimate children that you would provide tertiary care for. if your wife finds out her drive will actually skyrocket which is called mate guarding behavior
take this information how you want