>>11088893I never thought in a million years I'd be a 30 year old virgin. I'm pretty normal when engaged socially and decent looking.
I legitimately never have had a friend that was a girl. All my friends were nerds in school in a time when being nerdy = get bullied and no girls wanted anything to do with you. I went to college for 8 years, 4 years for a fine art degree and 4 years for tech and legitimately never talked to a single soul. No one ever engaged me either. Had two girls tell me I look super intimidating.
As a man, you can't rely on being approached right? My friends and family gave me the meme advice of "It'll happen when you least expect it" and "Someone will come across you." That doesn't happen, right? As a man you have to initiate right? I can't do that. I have severe social anxiety and shyness as a personality trait. I haven't made a friend since middle school and I work in manufacturing where 90% of the staff is 50+ boomers with no girls below the age of 45.
Is it possible to come back? I feel like I've been marked and no one wants to date a guy with no relationship experience or sex by 30. Like I'm bottom of the barrel goods right? So I can't come back?
